What's Really Behind The Camera
Two years ago I decided to work full time as a small business owner and professional photographer. Little did I know the emphasis would be on "small and business and full time" rather than "photographer."
Opening a small business stems from having a passion to do something we truly enjoy. For me, it was about departing my life-long, institutionalized existence with the United States Navy, and finally doing something on my own terms. My military childhood and career provided me a roadmap to navigate the entrepreneurship journey, while my military pension and benefits allow me to comfortably pursue my passion.
While I'm not making the "big bucks" in the C Suite or with a government agency, I am happy with my decision to step off the hamster wheel. Success is defined in many ways, and having a high paying job, with high stress, long hours and bureaucracy is not my definition of being successful. My military transition experience didn't emphasize that component much, and it felt like there was an expectation to go corporate, be a contractor or go home.
If the future me had advice for the transitioning me, I would have quite a few things to say, like be careful what you wish for, because let's face it, most solopreneurs, don't realize that putting on that business hat comes with more roles than we may be prepared for.
1. Your inner bully is only powerful if you listen
Some of us suffer from "Imposter Syndrome," which is the feeling that you are a fraud or that someone is suddenly going to call you out in front of others for not being qualified. I noticed my inner bully was loud and clear when I first started calling myself a "professional photographer" (and the voice still lurks around as we speak.) I routinely had a sense that those who truly knew me as the career Naval Officer wouldn't believe that I had skills to do anything other than that. I would hear an emphasis in the voices that would say "you are only doing that, but you have so much more to give." (Was that a back handed compliment?)
The first step was to believe in myself. When we wear the military uniform, first impressions stem from your rank, your ribbons and qualifications and your professional demeanor. For the most part, until you open your mouth, a military uniform is the resume, you don't have to convince anyone you belong.
Now my brand and the digital images I produce are my resume, but unlike the uniform, photography images appeal to each consumer differently; it's very subjective. For example, I had to learn how to not overthink my clients' reaction or lack of response. Not responding to an email doesn't mean they hate my images, it means they have a life or an out of control inbox (like me!) I've learned the art of positively following up, and sometimes it takes five to six emails, but that's okay because at that point I've closed the door to my inner bully who thinks I'm being ghosted, when in fact the client had an emergency and went out of town.
2. It's only competition if you compete
3. It's ok to have a bad day just learn from them, adjust and move on
From time to time, I have bad days, and sometimes bad weeks. One disgruntled client can tend to overshadow all the recent successful sessions, if you let it. I have taught myself to pay attention to when I need to fire a client and how to diplomatically say "I don't think I can meet your expectations." Sometimes it takes a while to realize as the entrepreneur, you are in the driver's seat. Losing one client that isn't the right fit is okay, there are plenty more that won't devalue your work, or your sense of worth. The bad experiences have also been opportunities to refine my brand, or language in my contracts.
4. Complacency leads to more work
5. Understand your value and educate your audience
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